Failures and successful people may approach challenges and setbacks differently. Failures may focus on the negative aspects of a situation and become discouraged or defeated, while successful people may see the bigger picture and look for opportunities to learn and grow.

One way to think about this difference is to imagine a donut. Failures may focus on the hole in the middle of the donut, seeing it as a symbol of their shortcomings or obstacles. They may become fixated on the negative aspects of the situation and lose sight of the bigger picture.

On the other hand, successful people may see the donut around the hole, focusing on the larger context and the potential for growth and improvement. They may see setbacks as opportunities to learn and adapt, rather than as personal failures.

This is not to say that successful people don’t experience setbacks or difficulties – everyone encounters challenges in life. However, successful people are able to reframe their perspective and see the bigger picture, rather than getting stuck on the negative aspects of a situation.

By adopting this mindset, you can learn to see the donut around the hole and focus on the larger context and potential for growth and improvement. This can help you stay motivated and focused on your goals, even when faced with challenges or setbacks.